Views on what I learned about taking care of a loved one with dementia.

All the tech products that I used over the years to care for my loved one with dementia from halfway across the world. This is the main page and I've added links below for easiness. These are some of the products I’ve bought and tried for myself or others over the years. I’ve noted on the page if I didn’t find them helpful. However, that doesn’t mean they won’t work for you. I purchased them all myself. The ones I post are just ideas—so, for example, if you find another camer

As my mum’s dementia progressed, the questions kept coming. Sometimes they weren’t even really questions.

When you build and perfect and one tiny tap or breeze undo's everything.

Caregiving from afar and the guilt that comes with it.

I stopped trying to understand dementia from a whole bunch of books and started trying to understand it from the people actually living with it. When mum was diagnosed with dementia, I did what most people do. I read everything I could get my hands on. I spent hours on dementia websites, reading about communication techniques, behaviours, what to expect, and how to respond. The information was helpful, but if I'm honest, I often found myself thinking, "OK... but how do I act

Caring for someone from afar is difficult but it can be done.

When a person with dementia is able to appear completely lucid and hold a normal conversation for a short period of time, making it seem as though their dementia isn't as advanced as it really is.

Motion Sensor Lights for Dementia: Simple Changes that Made a Difference

How dementia changes eyesight

What to do when you are accused of stealing from a loved one with dementia.

Why routine is so important for people with dementia

Easy Clothing For Elderly Parents With Dementia Getting dressed looks like the simplest thing in the world, until it isn't. For a long time, I didn't think twice about it either — until buttons became too fiddly, trousers went on back to front, and something that used to take two minutes started taking twenty. What Worked For Us Elastic waist trousers were one of the best changes I made. No buttons, no zips, nothing to fumble with — just pull them on and go. I kept several pa

I eventually had part time carers for Mama, but I still wanted to make sure she was safe. So, I had several trackers to make sure she got home okay, so I wouldn’t panic if she didn’t arrive at a certain time. That’s where these came in. When a smartphone wouldn’t do (Mama would flat-out refuse to carry a smartphone, saying it was too heavy), I opted for the devices below. If your loved one is used to carrying a smartphone, then you are sorted. However the time may come when t

Label Maker Signs Tape Pill Organisers First aid Kit Mattress Protectors Back up lights A lot of these I had in place before dementia. Like I mentioned, I love gadgets and anything that makes life easier, but many of these are necessities. For example, a first aid box—why wouldn’t there be one handy in the house? When I started clearing things away and decluttering (from the bathroom and kitchen), I consolidated and added everything in one place. Below are the items I purchas

I put these in place fairly early on, thankfully. They were ideal because Mama used to walk around in the dark all the time. She just wouldn't turn on the lights, trying to save electricity. Knowing that there would be an issue at some point, I installed motion sensor lights. These are great for several reasons: they light up the path when getting up in the middle of the night to go to the loo, they reduce electricity bills (yep, mama was right!), and they provide comfort sin

Big button mobile phones worked well for us for a while. Dementia or not, they are ideal for seniors in my opinion. Mama had never been used to smartphones so these were simple to use, one touch access was key. The large buttons were much easier to see and press, reducing the chance of dialing the wrong number. Most also have an SOS button that can be programmed with emergency contacts. Like any mobile phone, you'll need a SIM card. I used a Pay-As-You-Go SIM in the UK. All m

Easy to install cameras for help with caring for your loved one long distance.

Dementia brings its own set of challenges, both for the person with dementia and their caregivers. As I crawled through this journey with my Mama, I learned that it was unpredictable—changing every month, week, day, and soon every hour. You'll find that a lot in my posts. To help keep Mama's independence and ensure her safety from thousands of miles away, I implemented many changes. Creating a safe environment is crucial for those with dementia. Thinking one step ahead is vit

NOTE: When purchasing electrical devices, it is crucial to ensure that you buy from the correct country. Electrical standards vary significantly and the device might not fit or function properly. Timers also became invaluable during Mama's dementia. I actually installed some of these before she had dementia, as it was difficult for her to reach to switch off some lights. I believe timers are a must for all elderly. And they are not just for lights. I got very, very creative w